To the man who chooses his Facebook over his wife and kids

Remember how we started our relationship? Facebookdoesn’t exist that time yet. You used to be so caring, so loving and a very family oriented man. When we are far from each other, we only communicate through text that time, and there will never be a day and night that you will not text or call just to check how i was doing. You used to love me for what I am; and you used to accept my flaws as I was to you.

But time change and so feelings. You have committed the most unforgettable mistake in our relationship. Your infidelity just becomes more hurtful because you posted photos with your girl on your Facebook. Photos of you and her kissing and naked. Imagine that? Well, you are new toFacebookthat time, maybe you have no idea that those photos can be seen publicly that it even reached my families and friends.

You have ruined me, you broke me. You made me feel ugly. Did you ever think that your daughter can see those photos in the future?  What will you say to her? What will I say to her?She will know that she already existed when those photos were taken because it has a date and you can never change it. You seem so proud though.

As time passed, pain are mended, except for the trust. However, I chose to give you a chance and moved on. For our family. You have been good for a while. The perfect father figure and a perfect husband material. But  time came that you need to go away to work. We used all means of communication to communicate regularly. At first, all is going well. And then again,I have found out that you have another account onfacebookwith a new girl in your cover photo. You are using a different name and you have blocked me and my friends on that facebook. I refused to believe the fact that you are hiding something on that account.

But then, I saw it all, your posts to her wall, I even talked to her, and she admitted it, she was sorry because  she didn’t know about us. How could you be so stupid, heartless and so insensitive. You even denied us. Then you said sorry again and promised to never use that account again. But dear, why after 2 weeks I saw that your profile pic on that account was updated, with your new photo? You really think that

But dear, why after 2 weeks I saw that your profile pic on that account was updated, with your new photo? You really think that i would not see it, don’t you? well dear, I am smarter than you think. You and your family said that i was crazy for making up things about you. What you have done to me before made me smarter.

And here is the fact that you should know. While I am saying nice things about you to your daughter and to my friends, You are saying bad things about me to your family and to your friends, especially to your new girl. Do you ever sleep soundly at night?

This time, I have learned to fight back. But still deep inside me, I want us to be whole, for our little one. I still want to give you a chance. I asked you to stop your infidelity and deactivate your hidden accounts and use only one account to contact us and your family and friends, instead, you have blocked your wife and your daughter. It is clear then, that your Facebook is very important to your life than having a peaceful life with your family, or maybe, we are nothing to you. Maybe you didn’t understand what

It is clear then, that your Facebook is very important to your life than having a peaceful life with your family, or maybe, we are nothing to you. Maybe you didn’t understand what I really want. You have broken my trust. You have destroyed me emotionally. And I am doing my best to make it whole again. At least, show some effort that you are willing to earn back my trust. But you didn’t. Well, it’s crystal clear that we are  not that important to you as your facebook.

Anyway dear, that is the past. Now for the 4th time around, I have moved on. This time without you. We can be happy without you. Even though you are not worth it, I never ruined your image to your daughter, she still pray for you. It just hurts me when she ask about you, to hear her pray every night for you. It breaks my heart to remember, how could you be so heartless. You keep on pushing me down stepping on me when I am so weak to get up.  I really want to tell her about what kind of man you really are. I need someone to understand me. But I can’t.  Maybe time will come that she will understand. Maybe you are a good father in some way because she loves you.I need to be whole, for her.

You keep on pushing me down stepping on me when I am so weak to get up.  I really want to tell her about what kind of man you really are. I need someone to understand me. But I can’t.  Maybe time will come that she will understand. Maybe you are a good father in some way because she loves you.I need to be whole, for her.

I hated you. but now I forgive you and honestly?  I pity you. I don’t even want you to feel the things that you made me feel, even though I have yelled it out so many times to you. You have called me a bitch when I lost control. Do you ever realize that that’s my way of letting out my pain? What about you? do you really think that you are a good man when you tell your friends pitiful stories about you that made me look like a villain?

Anyway,  We are happy without you now. You have abandoned us, blocked us in your life. But you know what? We are never alone. I will never be alone. I have her, we have each other. I have people who loved us truly. And there is someone who will accept us and ready to take your place. In God’s will, we will be whole again, even without you.  I hope your Facebookwill take care of you and stay with you for the rest of your life.

 

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